head over heals

Have you ever looked up the definition of "head over heals". It's actually quite interest... it means "in disorderly haste". So, falling head over heals, is pretty much falling in love wit someone in a disorderly hasty way. I don't quite like that definition. Does that mean when you fall head over heals your more likely to get hurt because you aren't looking were your falling. Does it mean that your more likely to fall too hard... too fast. How do we know the right amount of speed to fall? Is there even a set speed of falling too fast or too slow? Should there be? Or should we gauge the speed by how fast the other person is falling too. I like that. I think falling head over heals is more like falling for someone at the same speed as the other or at least close. I like that. Because falling disorderly doesn't sound appetizing to me, doesn't sound safe, doesn't sound right.

2 months... that's the falling speed. :)